Happiness is made for everybody. It makes no difference if you are gay or not. This is why you should have the courage to be honest with your friends. If you are having a gay relationship and you are happy why not sharing this with your friends? If they really care for you they will be happy too. Real friends should support you.

Ask all your friends to meet you in the city. Tell them that you are gay and there will be no more secrets in your life. It’s a lot easier to tell them all at once than to have the same discussion with each of them. They will be surprised at first. Probably they will have a lot of questions for you. Take your time and answer to them. Now it’s the time to be completely honest.

The news might come as a shock for some of them. After you tell them that you are gay you should give them some time to assimilate the information. Therefore it’s better to let them think about it for a few days. Only your real friends will stick around. This will be like a real friendship test. It’s important to stay calm and positive. Your new life as an out gay man is about to start!

Don’t put yourself a deadline for coming out of the closet. Tell your friends that you are gay when you are ready to do so. You don’t have to force yourself. Try to relax as much as possible. It will not be an easy thing to do. This is a secret you had for many years. You need to have a lot of courage.

The next step will be to introduce your life partner to your friends. If they accepted you they will accept him also. Your friends can become his friends too. Make sure you let your friends know that you are the same person. Tell them that nothing will change.

Try not to change anything in the relation with your friends. Meet your friends as often as you used before. You used to meet them every Saturday night. You can bring your partner too but make sure they will not feel marginalized.

It’s not easy to find true love. You should take advantage of every good thing in your life. This is the best thing it could happen to anybody. You have to show your friends how happy you are.

Coming out of the closet might be a very difficult thing. Never give up fighting for your happiness! It’s important to tell everybody about your gay relationship. Only this way you will be able to enjoy life!