Happiness is made for everybody. It makes no difference if you are gay or not. We are all different and we should learn to tolerate each other. Often gay people are scared to talk to their friends about this. They think that they will not understand. After you tell the truth about yourself some people might not like you anymore. You should not worry though because your real friends will never leave you just because you are in a gay relationship.
You were the only one without a girlfriend. There for your friends are probably wondering if you are gay. It’s time to tell them. You will all feel a lot better. It takes a lot of courage to be honest but you have to do it. Your friendship will become a lot closer after you get out of the closet. They will understand that your relationship will make you happy. In the end that is the most important.
The news might come as a shock for some of them. Thus it’s better to let them think about it for a few days. Only your real friends will stick around after your coming out. This will be like a real friendship test. It’s important to stay calm and positive. Your new life is about to start!
Tell your friends that you are gay when you are ready to do so. You don’t have to force yourself. Don’t put yourself a deadline for coming out of the closet. Try to relax as much as possible. It will not be an easy thing to do. This is a secret you had for many years. You need to have a lot of courage.
After they had enough time to accept that you are gay you can introduce your life partner to them. You can all be friends. Let them see that nothing changed. You are the same person. If they will see how happy you are with your new relationship they will be able to understand you better. In the end everybody is looking for the perfect relationship.
Meet your friends as often as you used before. Let them know that you are still the same friend. They might need some time to see that nothing changed.
You are the same as the rest of your friends. Keep in mind that nobody is better than you. We are all people with good and bad things. The important thing is to learn to be better every day. There are no more secrets. You are free to love and be loved. The decision is in your hands!
Never give up fighting for your happiness! It’s important to tell everybody about your gay relationship. Only this way you will be able to enjoy life!
